This article lists the top 10 tips you will ever receive on how to fail in relationships. Paying close attention to them is a sure way to understand how they keep sabotaging your relationships over and over again. Read and internalize with the utmost attention.

1. Never take responsibility for you part of the failure of their relationships. Always blame your partners.

Taking responsibility shows that you could be wrong too. This can take away some of the respect and love your partner has for you. be sure you’re always right It’s the best way to show your integrity and show how strong you are!

2. Never try to get in touch and understand the needs which could lead you to sabotage your relationships.

Trying to understand what might lead you to sabotage your relationships means you don’t know yourself 100%. It means that you don’t know “who you really are”.

In today’s world where “knowledge is power”, not knowing “who you are” is a weakness. You cannot allow yourself to believe and assume that you have personal needs. unaware of which could lead to damaging your relationships.

There is no reason for you to even consider the possibility that you have needs that lead you to sabotage your relationships (such as: the need to always be in control that drives your partners away from you; the need to always get attention and love that makes you too dependent on your partners; the need to always be “right” that makes you unpleasant and stubborn, etc.).

3. Do not even try to realize and understand the fears that control you and drive you to sabotage your relationships.

It doesn’t make sense for you to be afraid of being unaware of that damage their relationships. Surely you realize your fears and know how to fight them. If you are not successful in your relationships it is no due to fears. There is no reason to suspect that you have fear of compromise (which can lead you to run away from each and every relationship you start to develop); fear of being alone (which could lead you to jump into a relationship with the one who blinks at you); fear of losing independence (what drives you to be controlling with your partners); fear of being hurt (which could lead him to be cautious with his partners and make him never dare to open up), and so on. No. Let no one suspect that you have fears you are not aware of Which causes you to sabotage your relationships!

4. Never check if your expectations of partners and relationships are unrealistic.

How good to have expectations! It’s also natural to expect your partner to be there for you all the time; love you unconditionally; to always understand you; to always remember your birthday. It’s great to expect you and your partner to always be in a good mood; they will always be sexually attracted to each other, and so on.

If you find that your expectations are no fulfilled – that your partner does not fulfill them! – this no your fault! You haven’t done anything wrong! There is no reason for you to wonder if your expectations are unrealistic and try to change them. If your relationship fails, there is no reason to suspect that your expectations have damaged it. Just find another partner!

5. Believe in your fantasies and make sure they come true!

Fantasies are part of life. They give you something to dream about, something to look forward to. Where will you be without your fantasies? The more fantasies you have about couples and relationships, the richer your relationship can be! Together with your partner you can reach the highest sky!

Fantasize that your love will be like in the movies. That your partner will supply all your needs. That you two will do everything together and never fight. That you will always agree on everything.

Hold on to your fantasies! Don’t let anyone tell you what they are unrealistic! They are part of “who you are”: your perception of reality, the way you approach love and relationships. Never abandon them!

6. Remember that you are he’s always right!

Whenever conflicts and arguments arise between you and your partner, never think for a minute that your classmate may be right, and never ever compromised! Compromises in life indicate weakness, and once you commit, your partner could use it against you again and again in the future. You must be assertive, even aggressive, knowing what you want and how to get it. Never succumb! If your partner doesn’t like it, it’s your partner’s problemIt is not yours!

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7. Always be submissive; compromise; give; allow abuse; loving and understanding.

Never allow yourself to do and express what you want to happen between you and your partner. Never express an idea different from your partner’s. Never refuse to do what your partner wants. the more you are there for your partner without any reciprocity, better for the relationship.

8. Always react with your partner and behave in the same way that you have done in past relationships.

prove to yourself that you are consist. That you don’t change from one relationship to another. There is no reason to choose different reactions and behaviors with different partners. If your past relationships failed it is not because you have or have not done something; it’s most likely because something your partner did. Or maybe “it wasn’t the right time”; or you were “too busy with your career”, and so on. So there is no reason for you to spend time thinking about what to do differently in a future relationship.

9. Never try to change anything related to “who you are” and the way you behave in a relationship.

The process of growing up has taken you years to get to where you are. Over the years you have unconsciously learned and internalized (from your parents, the society you grew up in, books, movies, fairy tales and more) a belief system, a perception of reality; Messages about love and relationships.

In your adult life you continue to hold on to these. And this is fine. There is no reason for you to leave them. There is no reason to try to change anything that you carry with you for so many years. You’re doing it right. If your relationship fails, that’s a shame, but it’s not a reason for you to start doubting yourself or start “working” to find out what has led you to failure. Things happen, sometimes more than once.

10. Resist, fight and reject any advice/suggestion to develop self-awareness.

Self-awareness is something only “losers” develop; only those who “do not find themselves”; only those who “are not sure of themselves”.

If you know who you are; if you appreciate yourself; if you feel you have a good level of self-esteem, why develop self-awareness? It can only make your partner doubt your integrity; Your strength; your stability

There is no reason for you to notice the ways you keep sabotaging your relationships over and over again. Avoid any temptation to get to know and understand yourself better. Be and remain “who you are”. After all, consistency in life is a virtue!