The first is the first. First you must know that the number one opponent in this is yourself: if you have any prejudice with white girls, you will have a hard time.

1. The first step to attracting white girls is to treat them like any other girl. Asian guys I’ve personally coached have had easy conversations with white girls simply because they felt comfortable in their own skin, a huge piece of attractiveness.

Don’t be afraid to put your arm around them or, in some cases, give them a nugie.

The second thing is to know what they like in terms of culture, now I know you won’t want to look them up on the internet so let me give you some short sound bites to use in conversations. Yeah, I’m stereotyping attractive white girls based on my experience so you don’t end up talking about something pathetic like your job or some anime movie she doesn’t know about.

2. Appearance and fashions are important to White Girls. So if you’re talking about the latest fashions, like Carrera Shades, True Religion Jeans, or the midnight screening of the latest movie, you’re IN.

For college, try bringing up a few video games like Rock Band, or even Call of Duty in conversations, then transition to some video games you know that she doesn’t. Some great TV shows also play by the same rules, just don’t get too into all the Gossip Girl or Sex in the City talk. Just tell him you found it and wonder what makes it so great.

If you’re an Asian guy and you have NO idea what I just mentioned, google it or find a trending magazine. Hell, go and read women’s magazines. They will tell you what happens. When you start a conversation with white girls saying you tried the latest iPhone, look at them and they will immediately jump into the conversation.

3. Hot White girls are usually active in their social life. That means they’re part of a dance team, a sport, or your local sorority chapter. The key is to find a “clique” of your own and be busy (or appear to be busy) with them. That will create a mirror of similarity where she sees you as someone who achieves the same things that she wants: this triggers the attraction. Remember, hot white girls don’t just sleep with random strangers. Many of them preselect the boys based on the similarity of their social habits. This is more of a long-term goal, but definitely make sure this happens.

4. White girls are relatively easy to ask out on a date. The usual options are the ones where they can “show off” their freshly styled hair, stilettos, and that bag that costs more than their part-time salary at Walmart. So movies (especially movie premieres) are big. Theme parks are another, and the third for me is the most popular sushi place in the city. As far as my dating experience goes, white girls have never said no to them, so ask them out!