Sometimes I hear of wives who are caught in a love triangle between their husband and someone else. Often they never suspected that they would find themselves in this position. But when the option is to allow your husband to walk away from you after all the time and effort you’ve put into your marriage, the lines you’ve drawn previously are sometimes not so clear cut now.

I recently heard from a wife who said, “Last year my husband developed a relationship with his assistant. He has known this woman for years and, to be honest, I have always liked her. Last year one of her children got sick and my husband did his best to support her as much as he could. This was the right thing to do, but unfortunately, as a result, their relationship turned romantic and an affair began. I found out about their relationship last month. My husband insists that I loves and doesn’t want a divorce, so I told her that she had to fire the other woman and cut off all contact with her, she didn’t hesitate to tell me she couldn’t do that. Not only would I never let her down when her son is sick, and she admitted that she has come to love her like a family and that depends so much on her. I told her if this is how she feels then she should let me go. but she won’t. She constantly sends me flowers and buys me gifts and begs me to come to dinner with him. He does not hide our relationship from the other woman. It has become a disaster. I don’t want to lose my husband. But I can’t participate in this love triangle forever. What is a wife supposed to do when her husband cannot choose between her and the other woman? Should you give him an ultimatum? Should you try to break them? What is the best course of action? I’m sorry that your life is so hard and that your son is sick, but I’m not ready to hand over my husband. “

This is a very difficult situation. It’s one thing if you hate the other woman or if she’s evil. Because then, it’s easy to want to banish her from your life and never look back. But when you meet her personally, have liked her, and know that she faces a difficult personal challenge, all of these things make the situation even worse.

Still, I have a definite opinion on how I think it is best to proceed in this situation. This opinion is based on my own experience and the experience of many who comment on my blog.

It really is best if your husband makes his own decision when choosing between the two of you: I must tell you that I dialogue with many women who have given their husband an ultimatum and then have celebrated when their husband reluctantly chose them over the other woman. But what you often don’t think about is what happens after he comes home and the two of you try to pick up the marriage where you left off. Because sometimes things are not so easy then. Although the husband may have chosen the wife, sometimes he may still have feelings for the other woman. And the result is him dejected and pining for her. Needless to say, this can make your homecoming and marriage less happy because you will always know somewhere in your mind that you made a forced decision. As a result, you may not be fully involved in the marriage.

That is why it is preferable to allow him to make his own decision. I know I am asking a lot. I know this is a very scary thought. Because you worry that if you give your husband even a little space, the other woman will push him towards her and ultimately you will lose him. But to be honest, if she makes the mistake of pushing him, then she might be on the receiving end of the scenario I just described, which would not be the worst for you or your marriage.

A suggested script for when your husband can’t decide between you and the other woman: Since I already suggested that you allow your husband to make his own decision without you offering ultimatums or threats, I am now going to suggest a conversation that you may wish to have to draw a line in the sand. I think it is very unhealthy for you to be involved in a love triangle. It is degrading and laughs at wedding vows. So a suggested conversation might go something like: “It’s clear that you are having a hard time choosing between her and me. And I am not going to increase your burden by giving you an ultimatum or launching an attack. I am disappointed that we are in this situation. And I cannot respect myself. and keep living this way, but I know you need time. So I’m going to take some time for myself while you decide what you want to do. Make a decision, let me know. But I can’t participate in our relationship when there is someone else in it. I want to save our marriage. But we can’t do that while she’s still around. So when and if you decide that our marriage is your priority, you know where to find me. “

Many wives tell me that this strategy feels risky. I know it does. But with this strategy you are maintaining your self-esteem and you are allowing her to make mistakes. She will likely push him where you have wandered off and he will look more negative in comparison. Either way, this is the only true way to know how you really feel, so that once you make a decision, you know that you did not unduly influence it and are more likely to believe that it is correct. And if he chose you, you will know that he did so willingly and that he is truly committed to your marriage. Plus, because you’ve stepped out of the equation, if he really loves you, he’ll be motivated to make a quick decision.

Kill women around the world by always being the one who tells the boy that she misses him. And what is the usual reaction of a boy? It does not seem to affect him. Women always ask why they always have to be the ones looking desperate. Can the tables be turned? Here are some “wait” tactics you can do to make this guy miss you terribly:

Appearing too busy to answer your calls or emails.

Whenever you call, let the call go to voicemail and then listen to him as he babbles your greeting. Get to work on something else. Don’t reply to their text messages too. Do your best to keep your silence. This won’t be difficult, especially if you know that eventually, he would go crazy and show up right at your doorstep.

Don’t put yourself at your disposal each and every time

Every time he asks you out, tell him that you already have plans. The next time he asks you out again, tell him that you have a date with your friends. Play your role with a T, make her wonder why you’re not peeing in your pants to see it.

When I leave a message on his machine, call him 3 days later

Three days could be the time it takes for me to miss you. Make sure he doesn’t hear from you in those three days. This is the most acceptable time for him to wonder why you are not calling him yet and if you are okay.

If he always takes you for granted, ignore him for two weeks.

If you’re the one who always asks if you want to go out, or if you’re the only one making an effort to make the relationship work, don’t show up for two whole weeks. This would catch him off guard and hopefully he will be the one to make the effort to be with you once again.

Don’t waste your time just waiting for it

You can’t just be depressed, waiting for your phone to ring. You have to keep busy because waiting for him won’t do you much good. You could spend your time with your friends or even exercising.

Resist the urge to contact him.

Try to put in a little more hours at work. This will not only prevent you from dialing his number, but it will also do wonders for your career.

If you want me to miss you, ignore it when you see it out there

Whenever you see it out there, say in the office or at school, ignore it. For a few days, it seems like you don’t care if you see it or not. The time apart when the two of you don’t talk should make him miss you.

The short story “Rice” (1938) by Manuel Arguilla presents readers with a meandering of facts that reflects two literary approaches. One is from a psychoanalytic perspective in which the three divisions of the psyche are those that dominate or interact in the evolution of history. One division is the id, which is part of the psyche that is completely unconscious and is the source of psychic energy derived from instinctual needs and drives. The second division is the ego, which is the organized conscious mediator between the person and reality, especially in functioning both in perception and in adaptation to reality. Finally, it is the superego that is the part of the psyche that is only partially conscious, that represents the internalization of paternal consciousness and the rules of society, and that functions to reward and punish through a system of moral attitudes, consciousness and sense of consciousness. fault. The other literary approach could be a Marxist perspective that states that a literary work can comprise a lesson about the impact on our lives of the common immorality and indecency of the well-to-do classes who are given the right to direct and control our system. economic.

The story begins with Mang Pablo, an elderly farmer from Hacienda Consuelo who is on his way home, looking for his family to report his antics for that day’s harvest. Osiang, the wife of his good friend, Andrés, meets him when he comes out of his hut. Mang Pablo, due to her old age, struggles to inform Osiang of that day’s harvest because she is caught hitting her mortar. Meanwhile, Osiang rants about the immorality of the people of Hacienda Consuelo so that they, the lower class people who settle in the place, pay a fine of five 1cavans of rice for a handful of snails that they would get in the stream. Mang Pablo, once again, struggles to inform Osiang that there is no rice for that day.

The story changes to a flashback of what happened in the morning when he, Mang Pablo, along with the other tenants of Hacienda Consuelo drove to the Lady’s house to borrow grain. Unfortunately for him and his fellow farmers, an announcement arrives from 2duty manager of rice sacks. The ad says that five bags of rice to be borrowed that day will turn into ten at harvest time. This news terribly surprises Mang Pablo and the rest of the farmers, ranting that they have always borrowed 3tersiohan ie oven cavans of rice for six. After which, the Ms He comes out with his cane striking the polished floor while threatening the peasants with the news that each sack of rice harvested that day will be loaded onto trucks and delivered to the city; therefore, the tenants will definitely starve.

The story returns to the present with Osiang, who still does not realize that there is no rice for that day, and offers Mang Pablo coal from his stove. Mang Pablo tries once more to inform Osiang of the terrible news, but she again hits her little stone mortar.

After a while, Osiang’s husband arrives and meets Mang Pablo. Mang Pablo insists on stopping Andrés and his fellow farmers’ plan to steal rice and kill truck loaders, but Andrés is determined. They argue about the consequences of their plan. Mang Pablo comments on going to 4Bilibid if they continue with their plan. Andrés responds, saying that there will be rice in the Bilibid. Mang Pablo once again insists on what they would gain if they fulfilled their plan. Andrés responds to this, stating that the rice is for his wives and children.

After the departure of Andrés and Osiang, his family arrives together with a security guard. The watchman approaches Mang Pablo and informs him of the offense – collecting snails from the stream – that his family committed and the fine they must pay. Then they walk home. Sabel, the daughter of Mang Pablo, repeatedly cries for her father from hunger. After contemplating what to do with his desperate situation, Mang Pablo grabs his skittle, leaves his cabin and walks over to Andrés, who is standing silently waiting for him by the broken fence.

As mentioned above, the story of “Rice” could be seen in two literary perspectives. One is from a Marxist perspective. In history, the Ms in Hacienda Consuelo he represents the wealthy people who oppressed the powerless people represented by Mang Pablo, his family and his fellow farmers. Tea MsThe representation of a wealthy oppressor is implied when he leaves his mansion with his cane striking the porch floor. A cane has both a positive and negative connotation. In the story, however, the cane symbolizes negativity: it was a tool used to hit or inflict pain.

The Lady had come out his cane hitting a quick tattoo on the polished porch floor…

The story also reflects a situation of repression and manipulation of workers by their owners. It is evident when the announcement of five borrowed rice sacks that turn into ten at harvest time arrives. Mang Pablo and his fellow farmers repeated over and over again that they had always borrowed tersiohan that is, four bags of rice become six. They insisted that 5takipan – five bags times ten – is too much.

“Five becomes ten,” said the manager.Either that or you don’t get rice. “

“Do you see those trucks?” she had finished, pointing to three big red trucks under the mango tree in the yard. “If you don’t carry the rice today, tonight the trucks will carry every sack in sight to the city.. So I hope they all starveungrateful beasts! “

History also describes the value of things for their usefulness in society. For the oppressed (Mang Pablo and the other farmers), rice is something that they, the humble people, value and use to satisfy their hunger for food. For the oppressors (Lady and authority), they value rice because it symbolizes that they are of high social status and have the power to dominate lower class people. The context of this literary work remains consistent with the ideology that rice is a staple food for all to satisfy hunger and symbolizes one’s social status and power in society.

A literary approach superimposed on this story, in addition to a Marxist approach, would be a psychoanalytic perspective. As discussed, the psychoanalytic approach involves the roles of the three divisions of the psyche – id, ego, and superego – in a literary work. In Arguilla’s “Rice,” an interplay of these three divisions is implied in how he narrates each event in the story. It begins with Mang Pablo submitting to his ego as he accepts the fact that he will always be a humble man destined to serve the people in power.

Although it is not said, Osiang’s continuous and unconscious contempt for Mang Pablo’s news that there will be no rice could suggest Mang Pablo’s acceptance of his current situation of living in a place dominated by people of superiority, that is, the complete ignorance of the upper social class for people of lower social class like them.

“Andrés is talking to some of the men at Elis’s house. Osiang, do you know where Sebia and the children are?”

“Why don’t you come home? He knows I’ve been waiting all day for the rice he brings home! I am very hungry. I can’t even drag my bones away from the stove. What is he doing at Elis’s house, the shameless and useless son of a bitch?“

Pablo backed away from the fence, stumbling a bit, because the long blades of grass got in his way. “There is no rice, Osiang,” he replied with difficulty over his shoulder. but evidently the woman did not listen to him because she kept talking: “Mang Pablo, how many cavans of rice did you borrow?”.. “

“There is no rice, Osiang,” he whispered. He felt too tired and weak to raise his voice …

The following sentence extracted from the selection implies that Mang Pablo succumbs to being a humble servant of the people of Hacienda Consuelo when he could no longer approach Osiang to tell the bad announcement.

Pablo looked at her and wanted to tell her again that there was no rice, but he did not dare to do it …

In the middle of the story, Mang Pablo is being dominated by his superego of contradicting his fellow farmers’ plan to steal the bags of rice they carefully harvested and the likely possibility of killing the truck loaders. It is evident in the story when his compatriot, Andrés, comes home with his wife, Osiang.

“Are you coming with us?” he asked Pablo, his voice grating harshly in his throat as he struggled to speak softly. In her small eyes there was a fierce and desperate look that Pablo found it difficult to find.

“Don’t be silly, Andres“he said, coughing to clear his throat and trying to sound calm …

“What can you do, Andrés?” he said. “He says he will stop the trucks that bring the rice to the city. That will be a robbery.“

In the end, what dominated Mang Pablo’s psyche is his identification. After the vigilante, along with his wife and children, approach him and inform him of the rape of his family, Mang Pablo contemplates how to find the payment for the rape of his family and how to find food to feed his family. His daughter, Sabel, comes repeatedly and mutters her hunger for food. Until that night, he decides to succumb to his identification: he decides to go with Andrés and the plan of his fellow farmers to steal and kill the carriers of the rice they harvested in the morning.

The piece of wood finally broke and Pablo was left with a short piece in his hands. She looked at him, sobbing with rage and weakness, then ran to the cabin crying: “Give me my gig, Sebia, give me my gig. We will have food tonight.“

After this scene, Sebia tries to prevent Mang Pablo from succumbing to his plan. Mang Pablo’s superego at some point, interacted with his id, leading him to his indecision.

“God save me,” said Pablo, broken. He raised his knees and dropped his face between them, he cried like a child…

Outside, the darkness had thickened. Pablo made his way through the tall grass of the garden. He stopped to look back at his house…

Mang Pablo’s latest action shows that he has finally allowed himself to be dominated by his id.

He tightened the belt of the heavy skittle around his waist.. He pulled the old buri firmly over his head and joined Andrew, who was waiting by the broken fence. Silent, they walked together…

“Rice” is a narrative, written by Manuel Arguilla, that describes the way of life of the peasants who are under the authority of the superiors in Hacienda Consuelo. It tells how rice makes the difference between the two classes, since having rice means having a high social status and power. The oppressors (represented by Ms) use their authority (to reclaim rice harvested by farmers) to win over humble people (the oppressed, Mang Pablo and his fellow farmers). It also tells how a problem can lead a person to commit a heinous crime caused by the despair that became evident when Mang Pablo joined his fellow farmers in committing the crime for their survival and that of their families.

¹cavanes – a cavanes of rice is equivalent to a sack of rice (fifty kilos of rice)

²manager – someone who carries loads or sacks of rice from sleds to trucks

³tersiohan: a loan system among Filipinos in which four bags of rice are paid for six

⁴Bilibid – a Filipino term for “jail” or “prison”

⁵takipan: a loan system among Filipinos in which five sacks of rice pay ten (the amount to borrow doubles at harvest time)

Reference:

Arguilla, ME 1998. How my brother Leon brought home a wife and other stories. Manila: De La Salle University Press, Inc.

Why do so many guys have a hard time approaching women and flirting?

In addition to their own causal social influence, it is because women forgot how to play the game of flirting.

When a woman shows no signs of interest and is dismissive and distant as millions of them are today, they are not providing any help to their own love lives.

They go to a Starbucks and instead of issuing signs to the guys they care about, they get stuck on their iPOD or laptop essentially waiting for the guys to do all the work. Meanwhile they ask ‘why can’t I meet any man?’ However, there are dozens of great options every time you go there.

It’s right in front of them and they can’t even see it. It’s time for women to start helping men because the natural form of attraction is called flirting. It is a sexual communication between a man and a woman.

Basically, how it works is like this; the man walks in and he shouldn’t have to do anything. From there, women will begin to pick up on his characteristics and if they are interested, they will send non-verbal signals that are subtle but obvious enough that the man knows that it is okay to approach.

Millions of women have deactivated their receptor cells and their ability to play the game of flirting. Unfortunately, they have become brick walls.

The man nonverbally sends his SONARR (science of natural attraction / response) or “signal”, but often these independent and developed women never get it back. So everything becomes a challenge.

This is one of the reasons why there are more singles now than ever.

How can I dare to say something like that? Call it cultural differentiation.

In a first world country, everyone is too independent and not interdependent enough.

They are too caught up in their own world. Women will use iPOD and will not show ANY signs of interest, even from men who know they are interested. This frustrates them even more.

Because this is a social pandemic now, few of these people can explain their behavior.

The cultural differentiation of all this was the only thing that saved me from total confusion. Here’s an incredibly true concept. As a man, you are supposed to be the same man before, during, and after any interaction with women and stay high in character.

Now; as a man you can go to all kinds of different environments and you will get all kinds of different responses to absolutely no responses.

Today’s women are often so disconnected and cold that a Tom Cruise could walk in and they wouldn’t even know it’s him if they didn’t know before. They have forgotten how to play the game due to all its independent development.

So if you walk into some settings like me doing nothing, they treat you like a rock star, in other settings women will actually throw obvious non-verbal signals at you to let you know it’s okay to approach and then other settings where you might. . Be the most handsome and highest character boy in the world and the independent, women will give you only one look.

I mean, is it you? (Ideally) you remain the same man of high character in all those moments. This is why you NEVER depend on any environment to dictate who you are.

You have to know who you are and know your relationship with whatever or event that may happen. You will know that you are not going to change who you are and you cannot depend on the completely variable responses of women or settings.

Can you see why millions of men are frustrated (like me)? And those are with the distant and dismissive women of Prada ‘Inner Alpha’. Social Alpha women are more likely to tease rather than flirt, which further confuses men and also doesn’t help women.

The prick is the socially devised act of sexual communication. Flirting is the natural act of communication.

Many men are more confused with women who will incite a man to think that he is flirting with him when he was just playing games or planning to get rid of him anyway.

It all comes down to this; Flirting is the natural act of sexual communication and is a two-way street.

It is not just up to the man to do all the work and entertain a woman. Nor is it entirely her fault to bear ALL the burden of behaviorism that today’s society has conditioned on women.

It is up to him to understand the difference between flirting and joking around. It’s up to him to clear up the confusion so that he can free his own life from oppression when it comes to dating.

Server crashes, PC slowdowns, network viruses, managed service plans that barely keep it running, programs that shut down in the middle of an operation, adware and malware, aging server that needs replacement, old PCs in their last stages; Really, do you need all the hassle and expense that these represent? You’ve been doing it for over thirty years, right? It’s just the price you pay to play to take advantage of the fabulous storage and computing power that a PC network offers.

But if you could ditch it all and get the computing power, would you? It would be crazy to reject that, wouldn’t it? Think about it, computing power without computers. A network without a server. And storage that’s super secure, super secure, and accessible from anywhere. Okay, come on, it sounds like a dream world!

But it definitely is not. This is exactly what a cloud network can do for you, and don’t worry about being surprised, it happens all the time. In fact, one of the first reactions is that it “sounds too good to be true”. But we certainly experience a similar feeling with cell phones and then with smartphones, laptops, tablets, and we will do it again with the next big wave. It just keeps getting better.

My vision from the beginning has been to rid a business owner or operator of as many IT problems as possible. To make it less expensive, out of sight, but more powerful and faster than ever. Today you can have a network installed with no moving parts in the office. No server, no PC, and seriously a quarter of one percent of the problems faced by an outdated hardware network. I know it sounds amazing, but when you replace a PC tower with a cart, a cloud access device with no moving parts, a lot of problems arise.

Get rid of the server because now your server is in a super secure data center. You can access it over the Internet from anywhere, on any device, and at any time. So what’s left to go wrong? The vast majority of issues that now arise can be managed remotely. It really is a beautiful thing, but the real beauty is that now you can focus on what you do, no matter what business it may be.

The progress of computing is an inexorable march toward ease of use, ever-faster computing speeds, seemingly limitless storage, and capabilities so complex that few of us can keep up. But for businesses, this progress means downsizing IT to the level of a utility company. You connect and play and buy and pay as much or as little as you need. It is an exciting development.

The influence of western music in India has never been so immense – until now. All Hindi Bollywood songs are full of English lyrics. There is a bit of Hip Hop after each verse.

The Bollywood film industry has never had the folly to imitate the Hollywood guys. Everyone knows that Indian filmmakers have copied movies, but the music was original. Musical movies and dancing in Hindi were the ingenuity of Bollywood.

With the success of Slumdog Millionare, western audiences have become familiar with the Indian film style. No Indian movie is complete without dance floors where all the main actors in the movie dance together. Choreography is a difficult matter, not all famous celebrities agree to follow certain steps. The choreographer adjusts the movements according to wishes.

The influence of western English music was always there, but it was not very prominent in the main scene.

Dhoom Machale by Tata Young

The first time Indian music lovers chose an English song was when ‘Dhoom’ was released in 2004. Tata Young sang the song titled ‘Dhoom Machale’, all the words were in English except the title of course. The song turned out to be insane that people are still seen dancing to this song at functions and parties today.

Snoop Dogg’s rap song on ‘Singh is Kinng’

In 2008, Snoop Dogg appeared in a music video along with Bollywood actor Akshay Kumar is a rap song. The video and song were an instant hit. It was the first time we saw a major international celebrity bond with Bollywood.

There are many other songs and various international musical artists have composed music for a Bollywood movie. Even regional songs include hip hop. Bollywood is slowly giving up its originality and is now focusing on what is in global demand.

I’m not complaining about the use of English, but the integrity of traditional Bollywood songs is compromised. With the increasing penetration of American music on our Indian television, young people are more interested in Western music. And for the Bollywood music industry to survive, they need to change and adapt to more popular musical styles.

A tiler is someone who takes full responsibility for every detail of flooring and tile laying. Tiles are generally used for bathrooms and kitchens. There are also several commercial outlets that rely on tile flooring and the same goes for the hospitality industry. Many professional growers also double as handymen to break the monotony of laying tiles.

When you hire a tiler, you also hire the skills they bring. You will lay the tiles flat and smooth, making sure they are well lined and aligned. They will also have the proper tools of the trade to get the job done right. A tiler can work with a large number of tiles, including ceramic or slate.

A tiler has to go through a series of tasks to complete the job. To begin with, you will have to correctly estimate the number of tiles you will need for a particular surface. These tiles will then need to be cut to the correct size and shape. If there is any restoration work that needs to be done before the tiling job, he will do it first. You will then prepare the area by placing some ruler and stickers where needed. You will then lay the tiles precisely making sure the final product is smooth and straight. Once this is done, you will apply grout between the tiles to hold them together.

Especially in kitchens and bathrooms, growers need to ensure that the flow of water in the space is directed to the drains without marring the tiles.

Now calling the tiler will cost you some money as well and this is based on several factors. The quote you receive will be based on who supplies you with your tiles and the caliber of the tiler you are hiring. The amount of site preparation is also important for the final quote. The area of ​​the space to be tiled is also important.

On this basis, growers calculate a cost price per square meter. Once the space has been accurately measured, you are seeing a price of this nature: ceramic tiles around $ 95 to $ 170 per square meter, quarry tiles start at the same and go to around $ 130. For the Wallcovering, if you’re considering it, laying the ceramic tiles can run up to $ 160.

Please note that you will get a rough estimate to begin with and a certain percentage will be added to the final invoice.

Definition of anti-Semitism: discrimination, prejudice or hostility towards Jews.

Dorothy Parker fans know her best-selling books, poems, and short stories. They are also well aware that Dorothy co-founded the Algonquin Round Table in the 1920s. In the 1930s she was nominated for an Academy Award for her screenplay for A Star Is Born. Also in the 1930s, Dorothy Parker co-founded the Anti-Nazi League and the Screenwriters Guild. Tragically, she fell victim to the McCarthy hearings and found herself, along with her friends Lillian Hellman and Dashielle Hammett, a victim of the communist Hollywood Black List scare of the 1950s.

During World War II, Dorothy Parker passionately protested the persecution of Jews in Europe. Her passion for speaking out boldly for human rights made her a hero on both coasts and in half the world.

Few of Dorothy’s fans knew that her maiden name was Dorothy Rothschild. Dorothy’s mother, Annie Eliza Martson Rothschild, was of Scottish descent and died at the age of 44, when Dorothy was 5 years old. Dorothy’s father, Jacob Henry Rothschild was of German Jewish descent, Dorothy Parker lived in an era when anti-Semitism was at its peak. Therefore, he was very sensitive to the unwanted discrimination that accompanied the knowledge of his Jewish name, Rothschild. Therefore, she kept her first husband’s last name, Edwin Pond Parker II, after their divorce, and enjoyed writing under the name Dorothy Parker.

In the Jewish religion, a child of mixed parents is considered Jewish only if his mother is Jewish. In the Jewish religion, when the father is only Jewish, the child is not considered Jewish. The reasoning for this is that people knew that a child came from its mother; However, in those days you couldn’t prove who the real father was … So someone with a Gentile mother and a Jewish father had the distinction of having a Jewish last name, but other Jews did not consider him Jewish because the mother was not bean.

Such prejudice on various fronts would affect Dorothy Parker, who hid the fact that her father was Jewish from friends and fans. Amazingly, in 1936 Dorothy helped found the Hollywood Anti-Nazi League. The League’s membership grew to more than 4,000 members, raising much-needed funds for persecuted Jews abroad. Some accused the Anti-Nazi League of being a front for the Communist Party, which could possibly have been the basis for Dorothy’s eventual persecution by McCarthy’s anti-Communist hearings in Hollywood.

In 1949, Dorothy Parker wrote the screenplay for the film The Fan, based on Oscar Wilde’s Lady Windemere’s Fan. The director of the film was Otto Preminger, whose most notable film, Exodus, has the merit of ending the Hollywood blacklist in 1960 when he openly acknowledged the blacklisted screenwriter Dalton Trumbo in the film. Exodus was a “Zionist epic” that described the true story of a ship of refugees who were denied entry to the United States because they were Jews.

Having grown up surrounded by anti-Semitism, Dorothy Parker was particularly sensitive to discrimination against blacks. When Dorothy Parker passed away from a heart attack in 1967 at the age of 73, she bequeathed the rights to her writings to Martin Luther King, Jr., who in turn left them to the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People. In 1988, the NAACP dedicated a memorial garden in memory of Dorothy Parker. She is recognized for her efforts to maintain “the ties of eternal friendship between the black and Jewish peoples.”

Sometimes I hear from people who deeply regret a past adventure. Often, as time goes by, the depth of your mistake becomes clearer and clearer. This, coupled with the fact that they now face the consequences of their actions, can make them feel the weight of their mistake.

I heard a wife say, “I would give everything I have if I could go back in time and make me never have an affair. I have ruined my life with a mistake. My husband found out and left me. He doesn’t take my calls. Children ask me every day where their father is. Now I realize how much I risk for a short-term distraction. I am starting to worry that I have destroyed my marriage and that I will never get my husband back. I know how much my husband loves our children And I wouldn’t be surprised if I were to fight for custody. Anyway, I don’t want to be alone. And I don’t want to. I want to be a single mother raising my kids alone. I wish there was something I could do to deny all the damage I’ve done. Because right now, I feel desperate. “

I felt compassion for this wife even though in my own situation I was the faithful wife. His true pain was obvious and it is very common to feel overwhelmed by this result when there is nothing you can do to change it. Unfortunately, there is no way to completely erase the matter. It happened and you can’t take it back. So now you have to look to the present and the future instead of the past. I will discuss some tips on how to do it below.

Your only focus should be on the future of your life: I know it’s very easy to keep looking back regretfully, especially if you’re feeling stuck right now. But honestly, it doesn’t do you any good. It only prevents you from progressing. Since you cannot change the matter and your memory is of no use to you, it is time to turn your attention to today and now. It is true that this wife was in a kind of withholding pattern when it came to her marriage because she did not know what her husband would ultimately decide to do. But, there was a lot she could do to get up while she was still. Just waiting for his decision while consumed with regret was not helping his cause. It was important to try to be as positive as possible for the sake of her children and for the sake of herself.

Don’t let your anger at yourself keep you from doing what’s in your best interest: It is not uncommon for me to see people who are so angry with themselves about the affair that they are willing to accept whatever punishment and negative things come their way. They feel unworthy of something positive and do not feel worthy of understanding or forgiveness, so they are not proactive in improving their situation. What he didn’t want was for this wife to stay home surrounded by her pain and grief. Yes, he made a mistake with far-reaching consequences. But nothing good would come of it if he became so discouraged that he did not try to improve his circumstances.

Every day, try to do something to help rectify this situation. Pledge to be the best parent, the best person, and the best spouse that you can be. If you need advice or self-help to determine why you may have acted this way, get it. Because until you deal with anything that may have contributed to this, then you can’t be one percent sure that you won’t be vulnerable to this again. And to give your marriage the best chance, you will need to be as healthy and strong as possible. Be very proactive to be as emotionally healthy as possible.

The best way to negate the effects of the adventure is to rebuild and heal: It is true that you cannot change reality. There is no way to erase the matter from your own memory or from your husband’s memory. But what you can do is do everything in your power to ensure that a complete healing occurs. You can do everything in your power to rebuild a healthy family. Because limping and dwelling on your mistake weakens you and makes you less effective as a parent, person, and spouse. And you and your family no less than all you have to give.

I realize that sometimes not all aspects of the future can be controlled. Sometimes your spouse will have some reservations about resuming your marriage. And you can’t always control this. But what you can do is heal yourself as much as possible, show your spouse your sincerity by doing this right again, and be kind and gentle to yourself. We all make mistakes. Yes, this is a big one. But the biggest mistake would be to allow this to ruin your life. You have a lot to live for. And the best thing you can do is grow and learn from this and make the necessary changes so that this does not happen again.

The remorse this wife felt indicated that she was a good person willing to acknowledge and learn from her mistake. So nothing good would come of her punishing herself more.

Have you ever wondered why women find “bad guys” so reckless?

irresistibly attractive? The type of man who shows little respect for women, only cares about himself and displays an unpleasant attitude towards society in general. The kind of boy that every father and mother used to warn their daughters against since they started dating as children?

When I started in the game, learning to flirt with women, like many other “nice” guys, I used to hate bad guys because they always had all the girls. I treated women with respect, sensitivity and kindness, giving them my shoulder to cry on when they needed someone to talk to, and what would they say to me when I asked them out? “Oh I really like you a lot and you are the nicest guy I have ever met, but I think it will be better for us to continue to be JUST FRIENDS.” And the next day, she starts dating another bad boy.

So I started to learn the specific things the bad boy did to make women so incredibly attracted to him. The good news: you don’t have to be a bad boy to attract women. You just need to understand how to show the same “attitude” that the bad boy has to get the same response from women. In other words, to get the same results you need to “act” like a bad boy, but you must still be a good boy under acting.

The question then is how can you act like a bad boy without actually being a bad boy. The best way I have found to do this is to “say” things that are playfully “arrogant” and at the same time be nice to your “actions.”

Imagine a situation where you open the door to a girl (such as a

gentleman) while on a date. Now when you open the door, you are

doing a nice and chivalrous “act”. When the girl says thank you, a good boy would probably reply “You’re welcome.” Now, instead of simply responding “you’re welcome”, the boy could turn that situation into an opportunity to unleash some “bad boy” attraction with the girl.

He might say something like this: “You’re welcome dear … I’m a gentleman and you’re a lady. But I hope you’re not the clumsy type. Because if you fall on our date in those pretty high heels, and you want my extra special “rescue the beautiful girl from the floor service”, that will cost you money. And I only accept VISA or MASTERCARD. I may be convinced to accept cash, but only if you ask me very well. “

You should say this with the most sincere smile on your face and the girl would probably laugh if she had the most basic sense of humor. You see, a statement like that, delivered as a joke, is much more interesting, challenging, and attractive to the girl than a simple, polite, boring reply like, “You’re welcome.”

Once you understand the underlying psychology, you will know how to represent the “bad boy” attitude in any situation. Naturally, he will start to give off bad boy “vibes” in his dealings with women and as a result, he will become as interesting to them as “real” bad boys. This is just one of hundreds of top secret techniques that I use myself and teach other men to use to easily attract women like a modern ‘Casanova’.