Why do so many guys have a hard time approaching women and flirting?

In addition to their own causal social influence, it is because women forgot how to play the game of flirting.

When a woman shows no signs of interest and is dismissive and distant as millions of them are today, they are not providing any help to their own love lives.

They go to a Starbucks and instead of issuing signs to the guys they care about, they get stuck on their iPOD or laptop essentially waiting for the guys to do all the work. Meanwhile they ask ‘why can’t I meet any man?’ However, there are dozens of great options every time you go there.

It’s right in front of them and they can’t even see it. It’s time for women to start helping men because the natural form of attraction is called flirting. It is a sexual communication between a man and a woman.

Basically, how it works is like this; the man walks in and he shouldn’t have to do anything. From there, women will begin to pick up on his characteristics and if they are interested, they will send non-verbal signals that are subtle but obvious enough that the man knows that it is okay to approach.

Millions of women have deactivated their receptor cells and their ability to play the game of flirting. Unfortunately, they have become brick walls.

The man nonverbally sends his SONARR (science of natural attraction / response) or “signal”, but often these independent and developed women never get it back. So everything becomes a challenge.

This is one of the reasons why there are more singles now than ever.

How can I dare to say something like that? Call it cultural differentiation.

In a first world country, everyone is too independent and not interdependent enough.

They are too caught up in their own world. Women will use iPOD and will not show ANY signs of interest, even from men who know they are interested. This frustrates them even more.

Because this is a social pandemic now, few of these people can explain their behavior.

The cultural differentiation of all this was the only thing that saved me from total confusion. Here’s an incredibly true concept. As a man, you are supposed to be the same man before, during, and after any interaction with women and stay high in character.

Now; as a man you can go to all kinds of different environments and you will get all kinds of different responses to absolutely no responses.

Today’s women are often so disconnected and cold that a Tom Cruise could walk in and they wouldn’t even know it’s him if they didn’t know before. They have forgotten how to play the game due to all its independent development.

So if you walk into some settings like me doing nothing, they treat you like a rock star, in other settings women will actually throw obvious non-verbal signals at you to let you know it’s okay to approach and then other settings where you might. . Be the most handsome and highest character boy in the world and the independent, women will give you only one look.

I mean, is it you? (Ideally) you remain the same man of high character in all those moments. This is why you NEVER depend on any environment to dictate who you are.

You have to know who you are and know your relationship with whatever or event that may happen. You will know that you are not going to change who you are and you cannot depend on the completely variable responses of women or settings.

Can you see why millions of men are frustrated (like me)? And those are with the distant and dismissive women of Prada ‘Inner Alpha’. Social Alpha women are more likely to tease rather than flirt, which further confuses men and also doesn’t help women.

The prick is the socially devised act of sexual communication. Flirting is the natural act of communication.

Many men are more confused with women who will incite a man to think that he is flirting with him when he was just playing games or planning to get rid of him anyway.

It all comes down to this; Flirting is the natural act of sexual communication and is a two-way street.

It is not just up to the man to do all the work and entertain a woman. Nor is it entirely her fault to bear ALL the burden of behaviorism that today’s society has conditioned on women.

It is up to him to understand the difference between flirting and joking around. It’s up to him to clear up the confusion so that he can free his own life from oppression when it comes to dating.