Have you seen girls playing tough and you think it’s not a good way to get a man to want you? Does it seem silly to you and you prefer to play directly? Could there be something about being independent that you just aren’t getting? Many women do not understand what it is about. They think it’s too useless a game and don’t even try.

The main goal of being slippery and independent is to attract his interest, partly because of your complete and utter lack of desperation. In a sense, playing hardball is the exact opposite of being desperate. Seeing how men hate a desperate woman, they automatically attract the girl who approaches him from the full end.

make him try

It makes him work to get closer to you and this makes him want to be challenged. Men can be very competitive and, figuratively speaking, he wants to push and elbow his way through other suitors to win you over with his own special brand of romance. There is a great deal of pride in this type of conquest.

Which can independence made for you?

From your point of view, think about what you are gaining. Not only do you now have a handsome guy eager to get close to you, but you’ve also bought yourself a lot of time to really figure out who this guy is.

If he gives up the first night because you didn’t readily agree to his request to meet him at his house, you’ve learned that he’s only doing it for the sex. But if the guy does everything he can to win your interest, woo your heart, and capture your affection, you’ll know that this guy is truly worth investing your time in.

Don’t be so quick to give in to what a guy asks of you, even if you’re tempted by his deep blue eyes and killer grin. Show him that you are in no rush to make things move too fast. This should be done while still showing him that you’re interested in getting to know him better… just that you want to take your sweet time.

Staying one step ahead of him is a great way to get closer to the guy who deserves to have you by his side.