When you think you have an ex boyfriend that you want to get back, you might want to know the secrets on how to get a guy back. Perhaps you have already tried several different ways to get it back.

Maybe you promised that you would be different this time, possibly you even begged and begged him to come back to you. Have you tried breaking up a new relationship that he might be in? You have to realize that it will be a lot harder to get it back if you act like a crazed teenager or kid.

Whatever you’re doing isn’t working, so take a good look at the way you’ve been acting since you broke up with him and change it now. Do you constantly show up somewhere because you know he will be there? Chasing him when he’s out with friends or on a date makes you look more like you’re stalking him than someone who really cares about him.

When you really want to learn how to win a guy back, you should try to see things from his side. Whatever you’re doing to try to win him back right now, it may be the very things that are driving him further away.

Here are some tips on how to win a guy back.

When you end up in the same place as him, no matter where it is, you just have to say hello and then continue doing whatever you did there in the first place. Another thing you could do is just walk away so he can see that you’re not trying to make him uncomfortable. Trust me, this will make him think that maybe you are over him.

When you’re trying to get an ex back, it’s important to understand that when you do something unexpected, it will have more of an impact than anything you’ve been doing up to this point. Especially since whatever you’re doing right now isn’t working to get him to come back to you.

For example, if you constantly call him, you should stop calling immediately. If you have a good reason to call him, go ahead and call him, but other than that, you need to leave him alone for a while. Give him some time to start thinking about what you might be up to and maybe even start to miss you.

After a while, if he hasn’t tried to reach you, you may want to call him, but just to say hi and let him know you were wondering how he’s doing. Keep it completely informal and make it a short phone call. Let him know you were thinking of him and that’s it.

Don’t ask to see him or try to get him to say that he wants you back right now. Keep it simple and act like an adult who really cares about how you feel. Don’t make it all about you and your past relationship with him. Say hello, talk for a few minutes, and then honestly tell him that you were just thinking about him, but you’re really busy right now, so you have to go. He said goodbye and ends the call.

This will make him wonder why you didn’t beg or beg him to at least come see you, and more importantly, he’ll wonder why you didn’t try to get him to come back to you. He will really start to think that you might be getting over it and he may call you in a day or two just to see how you react.

Again, don’t jump to the conclusion that you’re ready to get back together, but keep it casual and if you really want to get him back, tell him you’re in the middle of something and end the call as quickly as possible.

Trust me, this will drive him absolutely crazy and he’ll wonder what you’re doing. You may even think that you have found someone new and start to feel a bit jealous.

These are just a few ideas on how to win a guy back and if you really want to win him back and keep him, you need to come up with a step by step plan that is almost guaranteed to help you win him back.