How do I get my ex back after ruining everything by drunk dialing?
It’s a mistake that most people make after a breakup. But that doesn’t excuse it. You respond to the stress of the breakup with alcohol and then something about the intoxication makes you think your ex will want to take you back if you just beg.
Strange ideas we have.
If you want your ex back, you need to stop texting, drunk calling, and begging. Don’t beg and for now don’t even ask. You need to give your ex some space right now. That’s why some people recommend writing a handwritten letter that expresses your agreement with the breakup.
You agree to the breakup to show that you are strong and not needy. This allows your ex to have some space. Stop telling yourself it’s useless and don’t act desperate anymore.
Decide that you want the best for your ex so you can give him some space. Then after a couple of weeks you should try to get your ex back. Don’t try to act like nothing happened or the breakup isn’t a big deal. But try meeting up for coffee and see if things can be reignited.
It may be that your ex wants to be in your arms again, but he is only afraid that the future will be the same as the past. There were objections and probably arguments that led to the breakup in the first place, so your ex will have to believe that this is not the future. Show your ex that things will be different by making those changes within yourself.
