Mediation means that the couple agrees to use a neutral mediator. The Mediator does not provide legal advice or advocate for any party.

The choice that more couples are making now is the Collaborative Divorce. Collaborative divorce involves the use of attorneys for both parties who agree from the outset to work together to develop a fair outcome for all, including dividing property and selling your home. The collaborative divorce team may include financial professionals, your REALTOR®, children’s specialists, or other professionals that both spouses can agree upon. The bottom line is that they engage in a meaningful dialogue that will bring the process to a faster resolution and save both parties unnecessary complaints and money.

Just like a real estate transaction where you choose your own separate closing attorney, you benefit from having your own personal legal representation who is committed to a quick and proper settlement. Lawyers for both parties make sure that the legal stipulations are met.

Why is this good?

The most obvious is to save thousands of dollars

Negotiate settlements without courts involved

Keeps communication open

Develop shared solutions that best benefit both parties.

If children are involved, keep their best interests at the forefront

Maintain control of the divorce process.

Will it work for you?

If you can agree to disagree, keep the kids first, listen, plan ahead, and be ethical, then it can work.

So, since contested divorces can average over $25,000.00, a collaborative divorce may be a sensible option in Virginia Beach or Hampton Roads. Consult your lawyer before making any decision.