Male Internet Victims

I’m sorry to be indiscreet on this touchy subject, but it seems that this terrible business is starting to become a problem for an increasing number of men from different economic and academic backgrounds, who are getting caught up in what appears to be a sting operation that could potentially mark them for life. I have seen families fall apart and men have to move to a different town and even acquire a new identity. Chances are this is the first time you’ve heard of this topic and what follows as you read may not have any direct relevance to you. In fact, you could even be a woman and this story is about men grooming themselves online.

If, as I hope, this topic is completely foreign to you, please pass this note on to other men you know and care about. You could be doing them a huge favor.

We hear a lot about young girls being groomed on the internet by older men. This is, of course, one of the most disturbing issues related to the use of the Internet. What we don’t hear though, and what you’re about to find out as you read on, is the ease with which men of all ages are being targeted by women over the Internet, and having their photos, videos and personal data. and then distributed on websites of a certain nature all over the world.

In short, there are some free forums on the internet for people to chat about anything and everything. Naturally, these forums tend to think of themselves as “meeting places” where people talk to strangers, exchange ideas, and seek relationships, virtual or otherwise. You can usually join one of these forums for free and start chatting right away.

For many people, chatting online is just another way to unwind from the day’s tasks by having a relaxing conversation with other online chatters. Most online chat places are friendly places, but sometimes, as you will find out, they can be very dangerous. Male users of chat rooms should be especially aware that some of the most popular chat rooms are home to some very dangerous predators who use chat rooms to threaten and extort money from male users.

These dangerous predators I am talking about are believed to be women who have conspired to groom men and then blackmail them.

Is that how it works:

The predator would strike up a nice conversation with their victim and convince them to move the conversation to another chat site to make it more difficult to trace their identity. They will then persuade their victim to perform compromising acts, fully nude, in front of a webcam.

Unbeknownst to its victims, the predator will capture the video, save it to their computer, edit it, and then post it to hundreds of websites, the nature of which is obvious.

But there is still something worse to come. The way the operation seems to work is as follows: Initially, the woman will look for her victim. She will try several men before finding one who seems naive when it comes to Internet use. Predatory women do not look for perverts or men who are regular visitors to certain types of websites, as these men tend to be much more suspicious and much more discreet.

Instead, they look for easy prey. Your typical victim will be a school teacher, a dentist, or a police officer. The initial conversation will be very innocent. It tends to be about work, family, location, etc. Suspecting nothing, the victim often reveals the names of their children and the name of the company they work for. Naturally, once they’ve given this kind of information, men become even more trusting.

It’s a psychological thing that sharing personal information accelerates the feelings of trust we feel about our partner to the conversation. Then the woman talks about herself and surprise surprise it turns out that she and her victim have a lot in common.

You may both feel a bit lonely, you may both have some marital difficulties to work out, and you may both be longing for love and affection. Neither of them, of course, will contemplate having an extramarital affair primarily because of his loyalty to his family.

At the suggestion of the predatory woman, the conversation will be moved to a private chat program such as Yahoo Messenger or MSN Messenger. This will break the ‘continuity of evidence’. While in public chat, parties can be tracked relatively easily through their account registration details. This will be an almost impossible task with a private chat program. Switching from one chat show to another will also break the link between grooming and the shocking action that follows.

The conversation will continue in the private chat program and will become more and more personal until it becomes purely suggestive.

Eventually, the victim will be encouraged to perform a compromising act on themselves, on camera, so that the predator, whose work is nearly done, can “see, participate, and enjoy.” Once the act of commitment is concluded, the chat will come to an abrupt end, by the predator simply turning off the program on its end.

What happens next is very interesting and probably beyond most people’s understanding.

After the video conversation that was completely recorded by the predator on his computer, he will compile various video clips and give them titles like ‘John Smith From 91 Cleveland Lane Road, London, A GP and Child Molester Fxxxg himself in front of School Children ‘, as well as other similar colorful comments. He will then post these videos on various websites including YouTube and distribute them to many other websites around the world. The victim will wake up in the morning to a new reality.

You will first find an interesting email in your mailbox from an unknown email address with a short note from your predator and a video attached. After viewing the horrific video, most victims will immediately conduct an internet search under their own name only to find that their worst fears have materialized. By now, links to videos have become so popular, especially after being distributed worldwide via blogs and emails, that almost the entire first page of a Google search can sometimes be filled with links. to these videos, each time with a different title and comment. Quite a nightmare.

If the victim is married, you should now talk to your wife and explain how you allowed this situation to happen. This, as you can imagine, would be quite a challenging task in itself. It could be a matter of time before he is found out by his employers, children, other family members, neighbors, business associates or even some thugs who would believe he is really a child molester or pedophile. At this stage, victims typically seek legal advice.

They want to know what would happen if, or rather when, these videos were discovered by certain people, particularly their employers. With most employers, it is a dismissal offense to bring your organization into disrepute. Naturally, when we talk to the victims, many of them are in a state of extreme shock. Before tackling any other issues of concern to you, we as libel attorneys prioritize the immediate removal of videos from the various video hosting websites.

This could be done fairly quickly but of course the sooner we act the better because as time goes on the number of links tends to increase and so does the popularity of videos as well as the number of people copying. these videos. your personal computer and could potentially redistribute them in the future. However, removing these videos does not guarantee that they will not appear again in the future. It is important for victims to register with a 24/7 monitoring system to give early warning of any future distribution of their compromising videos.

Potentially, these videos could reappear on the Internet at any time in the next few years. In any case, with the Internet, it’s all about speed, so the priority is to remove these videos from video hosting sites as quickly as possible.

I can’t say for sure what the precise motive behind the predatory woman’s action is, but having seen so many of these cases lately, I have no doubt that there is a system behind this operation and I am almost convinced that the predators do. make. this for money. In legal terms, all victims in such cases have a cause of action in court, particularly for violation of privacy.

Although legal action might eventually lead to the identity of the predator, this would be very costly and would draw more unwanted attention to the matter and thus more reputational damage to the victims. In cases like this, any publicity is bad publicity.

The police are unlikely to be willing or able to intervene, mainly due to lack of resources and the fact that victims choose not to file a formal complaint. I’ll let your imagination imagine the devastation this could cause someone. I have seen male victims change their name and move to a different city to avoid detection. I also witnessed families falling apart and men feeling suicidal after their involvement as victims in this operation.

Legally, little can be done to turn back time. No level of compensation will persuade any man in his right mind to take such a matter to court. Sometimes keeping your head down is the best advice to follow. What remains is for us to spread the word, inform the public and educate people to be more vigilant while chatting on the Internet. You have to remember that the vast majority of men whose lives fall apart as a result of being fixed are innocent victims who were perhaps guilty of being naive or even a little reckless, but they are certainly not sex offenders or perverts and do not deserve the chain. perpetual potential that they may have to fulfill day after day.

Most people would agree that it is important to educate both adults and children about some of the dangers of Internet chat. These are the dark sides of our new global society and they are not likely to simply go away. Only by having people like you pass on this information to others can we make the Internet a safer place for both ourselves and the next generation.

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